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“Our marriage can still be a marvel”: Archbishop Urges Mozambican Couples to Restore Trust, Transparency

Archbishop Claudio Dalla Zuanna of the Catholic Archdiocese of Beira in Mozambique. Credit: Catholic Archdiocese of Beira

Archbishop Claudio Dalla Zuanna of the Catholic Archdiocese of Beira in Mozambique has urged couples to restore trust, transparency, and genuine companionship in their homes, stressing that even strained marriages “can still be a marvel.”

In his homily during the Jubilee of Married Couples, organized as part of the ongoing Catholic Church’s 2025 Jubilee Year, Archbishop Zuanna warned that couples can easily find themselves “in the middle of the night inside our own home,” with mistrust, infidelity, lack of respect, and even acts of violence destroying family life.

“Sometimes our marriage seems as if the fog is thickening – we no longer know what the other thinks or feels, and each one goes their own way,” the Catholic Archbishop said during the November 15 event that was held at Our Lady of the Rosary Cathedral of Beira Archdiocese.

He added, “There should be no space for discouragement in our marriage. We have many advantages when each side is willing to go beyond their limits and correct their attitudes.”

“Our marriages can still be a marvel; the affection between us, intimacy, mutual help, forgiveness, and solidarity become wonderful things that make our marriage a marvel,” the Argentine member of the Congregation of the Priests of the Sacred Heart (SCI) said.

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He acknowledged that many couples struggle to start over because old patterns resurface the moment they return home.

The Catholic Church leader noted that rebuilding requires patience, noting that “tomorrow we will fail again; we will forgive each other again; we will help each other again; and we will create wonders.”

Archbishop Zuanna underscored the need for perseverance, appealing to couples not to give up at the first conflict.

He encouraged spouses to revive simple gestures of love, suggesting they return home that night and say to each other: “We can still love each other.”

To the couples present, Archbishop Zuanna urged them to “stand, hold your partner’s hand, and speak from the heart.”

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He warned against emotional fatigue and the accumulation of unresolved conflicts, saying, “Many couples allow small problems to grow into large barriers.”

Archbishop Zuanna also lamented that some homes deteriorate into hostility, noting that “some even reach the point of raising a hand against one another. This is a deep night.”

He went on to reflect on the pressing problem of couples living together physically but drifting apart emotionally, saying, “We no longer know what the other thinks, what the other feels.”

The Local Ordinary of Beira called for renewed dialogue, attentive listening, and small acts that rebuild closeness.

Archbishop Zuanna invited couples to rekindle the original promise that united them, saying, “The commitments of your wedding day – you are living them at every moment of your life.”

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João Vissesse is an Angolan Journalist with a passion and rich experience in Catholic Church Communication and Media Apostolate.